WHAT IS COACHING?

Coaching is a partnership between the coach and the client in a creative and thought-provoking process over a period of time, often starting with a 90-day agreement, so that underlying fears, limiting beliefs, and unhelpful attitudes are no longer running your life. 

We know that by achieving greater awareness and control over your spiritual, emotional and mental wellbeing, that you are free to experience more of God’s grace, peace, and joy–even in difficult circumstances.

Coaching Helps You Create

Setting and achieving meaningful goals is vital to a woman's sense of confidence. Often, your goals will be within the context of your marriage relationship, but may also include other life transitions, such as:

• Preparing to (re)enter the job market 

• Effective parenting or home management while the family acclimates to a "new normal"

• Mending relationships with adult children, extended family members, or friends. 

We understand that relationships can be difficult even under the best of circumstances, and the years following an incident of betrayal are often full of lingering fears, resentment, and anger.  

There is hardly a part of a woman's life that remains unaffected by intimate betrayal. She has likely experienced a paradigm shift in the way she sees herself, her relationships, her faith, and her world and may feel as though she's lost part of herself in the process.  

"What if I've Already Tried Counseling?"

Coaching and counseling are different modalities for helping a person make productive changes in their life and relationships.

Maybe you and your husband attended counseling sessions or therapy after the revelation of hidden pornography use or infidelity. Maybe you found that counseling helped a lot, a little, or not much at all. Stll, maybe you have never been to counseling at all.

Even if you've tried reading the best-selling Christian books on marriage, listening to podcasts, or talking with friends, you may still feel unable to progress from where you are to where you want to be. For many women, it’s not uncommon to spend years mostly unaware of how much the cumulative effects this stress can have on her quality of life and spiritual health.

Coaching is also not therapy, nor is it designed to be crisis intervention. With coaching, we will not rehash, or relive past events except to explore what potential influence those events may have in your life right now. 

Certified Professional Coaches support our clients within two areas of focus:

• Betrayal Recovery & Marriage Coaching

• Women's Wellbeing Coaching

All coaching offered is for the woman who:

• Desires to seek the Lord's will in her life.

• Has been living with accumulated stress from the betrayal for some time–and longer than she’d like to admit.

• Knows that caring for her own spiritual, mental, and emotional wellbeing is essential to healing wounds and consciously (re)creating relationships as the most resilient version of herself.

While we cannot control the choices your husband made or will make in the future, what we will do is give you powerful tools that will increase your confidence, help you advocate for yourself, and effectively manage your stress-reactions so that you maintain more control over the things Scripture commands us to guard carefully–your time, energy, and emotions.

Your coaches are here to listen, champion, challenge, and reflect your inherent brilliance as a human being, designed in the image of God–empowering you to connect completely with the inner (and outer) work the Lord has ordained for you.